Encouragement, Lifestyle

Unwrapped Gifts: Are We Using Our God Given Gifts?

It’s the holiday season!

So much food, music, decorations, and yep you guessed it—- so many GIFTS.

I’m so blessed to even as an adult still be getting gifts from my family. I’m very appreciative but here’s a confession (shhh, just between you and me lol). Last year, while I was Spring cleaning , I found a beautifully wrapped Christmas present that I had failed to do what? —- UNWRAP. When I finally unwrapped the gift, it just so happened to be something that I’d been wanting and had actually went out and purchased weeks prior (thank you Godmother for my gift!). Anyway, I was so angry with myself. How could I have been so busy, so forgetful, so lazy that I didn’t unwrap my gift?

Many of us are walking around every day doing what I failed to do in that scenario– unwrapping our gifts. No, I’m not referring to actual tangible gifts. I’m referring to our God-given gifts—the best gifts of them all!


You may be asking yourself “Well, what exactly are gifts?”

Gifts are supernatural God given abilities. 1 Corinthians Chapter 12 speaks in detail of such gifts. It reads as follows:

“There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord.  There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work. Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.  To one there is given through the Spirit a message of wisdom, to another a message of knowledge by means of the same Spirit, to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by that one Spirit, to another miraculous powers, to another prophecy, to another distinguishing between spirits, to another speaking in different kinds of tongues, and to still another the interpretation of tongues. All these are the work of one and the same Spirit, and he distributes them to each one, just as he determines.” (1 Corinthians 12: 4-11)

Whew! Lol. That’s a lot of gift giving, God. We are so grateful for them all!

The unfortunate thing that comes to mind when I think of these wonderful gifts (that are intended to be used for the purposes of ministry) is how often gifts lay dormant inside of us— completely UNWRAPPED. We have these beautiful God-given gifts inside of us but often times we fail to identify, activate, and operate in them.

This was me! Through the years, I kept asking God what my purpose was. I even bought and read the book “The Purpose Driven Life” by Rick Warren (which I love by the way!) but all the books in the world couldn’t help me learn something that I already had inside of me.

Let me tell you, since I have realized and began using my gift, I have found power, joy, and oh so much peace. You can have this too! All you need to do is

  • IDENTIFY your gift
  • ACTIVATE your gift
  • OPERATE in your gift

I like analogies so here’s one to help you understand this process (because it is a process) of using your gifts. A flashlight is a flashlight all day long. It doesn’t change. However, you have to identify what it is and what it can be used for before it can do any good, right? Also, a flashlight doesn’t do much good unless it has batteries and is turned on, right? The flashlight has to be activated! Lastly, imagine how silly I would look holding a flashlight backwards or pointing it into the wrong direction of where I needed light. I need to know how and when to operate the flashlight or else what is its purpose?


To read the difference between Gifts and Talents, CLICK HERE


If you’re struggling with the idea of spiritual gifts inside of you, here are 5 questions that you can ask yourself as you try to identify, activate, and operate in your gifts?

  1. What do I like to do?
  2. What am I good at? What do other people always tell me I’m good at?
  3. What comes relatively easy to me that may not come easy to others?
  4. What do I have or what can I do that can bring glory to God?
  5. Is there a need in my community or Church that I continue to see but I don’t do anything about?

I once heard someone say “Don’t leave this Earth letting everyone use you but God”. Wow, that’s pretty powerful advice. Let us allow God to use us through gifts for His glory. Trust that the world can and will be a better place if we do.

1 Peter 4:10 writes: “Each of you should use whatever GIFT you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of Gods’ grace in its various forms.”

1 Peter 4 10

So whatever your gift is, don’t forget to unwrap it. I repeat, don’t forget to unwrap your gift. Then, once you unwrap it, please use it for God’s glory.

May your eyes, your head, and your spirit always BE LIFTED.


Want to take an assessment to help you identify what your spiritual gift(s) may be?

*Click here for an amazing Spiritual Gifts Assessment offered by the The Rock Church in San Diego, California.

*Click here for a great Spiritual Gifts Survey offered by Lifeway Christian Resources.


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4 thoughts on “Unwrapped Gifts: Are We Using Our God Given Gifts?”

  1. Thank you for writing on this. I wish that someone would’ve explained to me earlier in my Christian walk about identifying and operating in my gifts. A lot of Christians have gifts and don’t unwrap them simply because they never knew the gift was there, chose not to open them, or sit on them (for whatever reason). This was very well written. Awesome job.

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    1. Hey Lindsey! Thanks so much for reading and commenting. Yes to all of those reasons. It makes me sad that we wait so long to unwrap our gifts when we could be using them for the Kingdom but I guess it’s all just part of our journey sometimes.

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  2. Here you go stepping all on my toes! I know for sure I’m not walking in the gifts that God has for me. Sometimes I allow fear to hold me back. Other times I wonder if I’ll even be good enough. Although my trust is in the Lord it can be hard to step out on faith. i know I’ll be good at these things but I have to believe that more than just saying it! Love you!

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    1. Yes, I definitely think fear often holds many of us back Se’Bon. It can be so crippling. At least you have revelation of it now and know what to pray for though. I love you friend! Thank you for reading and commenting 🙂


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